Today we’ve got a steamy birthday sex date that will be a hit with your spouse–we promise! Included in this date are two sensual games, a sexy invitation to the date, and a Birthday Sex Wishes card for your sweetie to fill out. We also created a playlist of birthday sex songs specifically for this private party, and we have listed five birthday sex ideas for him and five birthday sex ideas for her! So, are you ready to gift your spouse the ultimate birthday sex experience?! If you said YES, read on! Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. To learn more about ’em, click here.

25 of the Best Birthday Sex Songs

25 of the Best Birthday Sex Songs

25 of the Best Birthday Sex Songs

Let’s start with the perfect sexy birthday playlist! What better way to set the mood than with some clean, sexy music?! We wanted to make this epic date as easy as possible, so we created The Best Birthday Sex Playlist for you on our Divas Spotify account. We’re sure there are plenty of other birthday sex songs that you could add to your own spicy playlist, but here are the 25 faves that made it onto ours:

Birthday Sex Printables

Birthday Sex Printables

Birthday Sex Printables

Sexy birthday ideas start with these awesome printables! Like we mentioned above, this printable pack includes two games, an invitation to the date, and a Birthday Sex Wishes sheet. You’re going to LOVE all of these!

7 More Sexy Games for Your Spicy Bedroom Party

7 More Sexy Games for Your Spicy Bedroom Party

7 More Sexy Games for Your Spicy Bedroom Party

Don’t let the fun stop after sexy Would You Rather and Truth or Dare! Check out these additional spicy bedroom games that will leave you sweating!

Strip Twister – Each time you take a turn you remove an article of clothing. This game makes you BOTH winners!

Decorate the Cake – Use chocolate, whipped cream, fruit, or sprinkles, and decorate your spouse’s body like a birthday cake!

Spicy Dice – Roll and see what you’ll get to do!

Sexy Pictionary – Take turns, and draw a position/fantasy while the other person guesses. If your partner guesses correctly, you do what the drawing shows. If not, time to start over and draw again!

Hide & Seek – Hide flavored lubricant on several parts your body, and tell your partner to find all the hiding spots! (This game is by Jordan D’Nelle: Physician Assistant, Sexual Health Educator, and Intimacy Coach.)

Ice Art – Use ice cubes to trace along your partner’s body, and have them guess what you drew!

X Marks the Spot – With a specific body part in mind, have your partner kiss your body until they find “X!”

Birthday Sex Ideas for Him and Her

Birthday Sex Ideas for Him and Her

Birthday Sex Ideas for Him and Her

This is where the Birthday Sex Wishes card comes in handy… No guessing as to what sexy wishes your sweetie has! However, we know not everyone is comfortable writing down their sexy desires. If this is the case, don’t sweat it! We’ve got some sexy birthday ideas for you. Birthday Sex Ideas for Him:

A sensual massageA night of roleplaying Flaunting a new set of lingerieHelping him explore all five of his senses A book of Love Coupons

Birthday Sex Ideas for Her:

Flower petals on the bed A game of Sexy Jenga A foot massage Lit candles in the bedroom or bathroom A bubble bath for two

You know your sweetie best, so we are confident whatever you plan will be a huge hit! That’s a wrap! What do you think? Is this the most EPIC birthday experience or what?! Enjoy! {Wink!}