Why should you care? It is hard to understate the role attention plays in your life. What you attend to is what your life becomes. Spend time giving attention to baseball statistics, and that becomes part of your life. Focus on the healthy development of children, and that becomes part of your life. The choices you make about how—and what—you invest attention in form your life’s structure and content. As demands for our attention become ever more seductive, it has become essential to be more conscious of how you’re using your attention. Because these systems exploit your natural curiosity (or fears) for their own ends, you can no longer rely on your own impulsive interests to make choices. By taking a moment to slow down and consider what you really want, you can invest your limited attention resources in what’s important to you, and live the life you want. The key to doing this is noticing what your attention is doing. These are fleeting moments that at first are almost imperceptible—however, with practice they will start popping out at you like the “Magic Eye” puzzle in the Sunday comics.
Three Signs Your Attention Just Got Hacked
Three Signs Your Attention Just Got Hacked
Here’s How to Regain Focus and Control of Your Attention:
Here’s How to Regain Focus and Control of Your Attention:
Notice. Noticing breaks the spell. So, begin to notice when you do these things. Notice what the feeling is like while you do them. What do you feel in your body? What are the stories in your head? What emotions do you feel? Is this what you actually want? A mindless diversion isn’t necessarily evil, but 6.5 hours of your life down the drain adds up to what? Question and Shift. Questions help you orient. After noticing comes inquiring and shifting. Ask yourself, “Is this where my attention needs to be right now?” If what you’re doing isn’t what you intend to be doing, stop doing it and return to what’s important to you. Repeat. Building the habit of noticing, questioning and shifting strengthens your choice-making muscles. Gradually, you’ll begin to see how much of your attention you’re wasting away. Alternative pathways start to be forged and you can step out of the seductions more easily. You can more quickly return from the rabbit holes of distraction and keep focused on what’s important to you.
